Does your child have difficulty with attention? Let’s first look at the average attention span by age.
- Before age 2: about 3 minutes
- Age 2: about 6 minutes
- Age 3: about 9 minutes
- Age 4: about 12 minutes
- Age 5: about 14 minutes
- Age 6: about 20 minutes
Apart from how long it lasts, attention can be further divided into five different types:
- Focused Attention
- Definition: The ability to respond to external stimuli.
- Example: Noticing when the phone rings or when someone calls their name.
- Sustained Attention
- Definition: The ability to focus on an activity for a period of time.
- Example: Paying attention throughout an entire class, or reading a book without distration.
- Selective Attention
- Definition: The ability to choose and focus on important information among multiple stimuli.
- Example: Talking with a classmate in a noisy classroom during break time, or working in a café while ignoring background music and conversations.
- Alternating Attention
- Definition: Also known as shifting attention, it is the ability to switch quickly between different tasks.
- Example: Copying homework instructions from the blackboard while alternating attention between the board and the notebook without losing focus.
- Divided Attention
- Definition: The ability to focus on two or more activities at the same time.
- Example: Listening to music while doing homework, or toasting bread while making coffee.

How Parents Can Help Children Improve Attention:
- List the tasks that need to be completed each day in order. Provide encouragement when the child completes them well.
- Break down difficult tasks into smaller steps with appropriate breaks in between, and remind the child to stay focused within the allotted time.
- Have the child work in a simple, quiet environment with few distractions.
- Give advance notice when transitioning between activities.
- Maintain a balanced diet, avoid processed foods and sweets, and ensure appropriate exercise and sleep to help stabilize the child’s mood.
